just go do the damn thing
alright guys, it’s been officially one month into 2026....
the excitement has settled, and im guessing a lot of u are standing at the edge of something u want to do… but haven’t yet.
most of the time, i feel like it's not because we don’t want it badly enough.
but because as human beings, we're just scared of being judged while we try.
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the theme of today's blog post: people are going to judge u anyway, so go do the damn thing.
if u chase ur dreams, they're gonna say you're unrealistic.
if u play it safe, they’re gonna say you're settling/not ambitious enough.
if you're too loud, then you're arrogant.
if you're too quiet, then u apparently don’t have a voice (lol)
basically, no matter what choices u make for ur own life, someone will always have something to say.
+ guess what?
most of the time, it’s coming from people who haven’t gone through it.
they have no idea what it means for u to take those steps.
the ppl who have gone through it, will never judge u for trying. for being brave.
whether u want to learn a new skill, switch careers, dress differently...
u will NEVER please EVERYONE. pleeeeeeeease remember that.
so why let that stop u?
cause if the judgment is coming either way (whether u do the thing....or say u wanna do the thing and not do the thing...), u might as well choose what actually aligns with u.
stand with ur chest up to the sky.
go do the damn thing.

Thank you for this
You always post something so relatable and you know I will go do that damn thing! I will go open that café as soon as I can!
This was genuinely beautiful
Thanks Judy, there are things I want to do but haven’t started yet due to fear of failure/judgement.
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